Tips on how to make a long distance relationship work, survive, last and easier.



When two lovers are separated by physical distance that is long, it is known as a long distance relationship. It's an atypical relationship since it is kind of hard to share you daily lives with each other when both of them are living apart. For that reason many people believe that it is hard to make a long distance relationship not only maintain and work to start with, but also last forever. However, this doesn't have to be the case in your love connection from far away place. We will list a lot of helpful tips that should make your long distance relationship work, easier, thrive and last long. Ofthen times the problem is not the geographical gap between the couples, but rather it's a psychologic issue of thinking and missing each other; and eventually not being able to take it and thus end up giving up on their love feelings. True love and relationships knows no borders; for them it is a blessing to realize that they met even though they live in different places, which makes them realize that they are truly made for each other. This type of feeling can sometime be overwhelmingly positive and generate more love and longing. Here are some actions or step that you can take to save and survive long distance relationships: first and foremost thing is to understand that true love is can't be stopped by distances, it can only enhance. But there are times when no matter how strong the couples have emotions and their heart has been touched, live thousands of miles away can sometime prevent you from keep working. Number one excuse for men to break up the long distance relationship is too much time and distance apart while the number one complaint from women side is interpersonal problems where she feels he is just not right for her and vice versa. That's why it is important to keep in touch and pay visit whenever possible. Great way to keep in touch is to use modern day technology, thanks to how affordable they have become now a days; use communication modes such as telephone, email, web videos, instant messanger, text messages or write and send traditional post office snail mail, greetings and post cards. Do whatever you can save to keep it rocking.

Earlier we talked a bit about how important role the psychology of your mind plays in a long distance relationship to either end or achieve success. It is probably the biggest factor; you have to make up your mind whether or not you are serious about dating and starting a relation with a person who lives far away. After that, you have to make sure your decision is strong and you keep it. That way when you feel desperate and wish you were physically together, you can tell yourself that you made up your mind before now you can't keep on changing it unless the circumstances demand. That way you can be honest to yourself and him/her. The more honest you are to yourself and other, the more you and others can trust you. You become a reliable person and they trust you to not cheat and have extra marital affairs.

So if you ask are long-distance relationships on the Internet really possible? The answer is yes. You need to read these tips to make sure that it does work out for you. The main reason people complain long distance relationships (LDR)doesn't work is because couples are not living together and thus can't share their daily lives with each other and end up feeling lonely. But that is not true; physical distance doesn't have to be an issue when it comes to sharing lives with each other. You can always contact and share your lives with him/her; there are phones, internet web cam, share a journal or blog, start a website together, emails, postal offices, and many more. If you feel like there is nothing really to talk about, realize that there are many as a matter of fact. Talk about things that are in the news or favorite TV shows or musical concerts, or matters that he or she cares most about. It doesn't have to be an exact, just as long as it is related it should help the conversation keep going. Whenever in direct conctact reaffirm how much you love that person and want to be together, without making it sound superficial. And the most important advice in this section to share what is going on in your life - like what you did today while focusing on the future of this relationship. If you didn't do anything, what made your do nothing that day. See there are always something to talk about. And if you have problem getting ideas about what to talk about, just write down notes before you make a phone call or text message. You can send care and personal packages, which helps show how much you really care about each other. That you both miss each other but love will always be there. Some items that you can send when dating a long distance person are personal photos, flowers, his or her favorite books, jewelries, music cd songs, scrapbook and small snack foods. One research study shows that men tend to find fault on something outside of the relationshiop, where as women are more likely to blame on faulty matter within the relationship.

In the bedroom, cheating husband can start to act differently. He isn't intimate and affectionate any more and sex life seems to become more and more less happening. He suddently wants to try new love techniques. Maybe it is his guilt feeling or maybe he doesn't like you anymore since he got this new girl who he met in the local singles bar. They start to have short temperament. You can look for bruises and scratches around his neck, chest and other areas. At work, he is on vacation and holidays, but he tells you he is going to work. Sometimes he will leave for work early and come home late. All of a sudden he is into these new technology and gadgets that only teens use to talke and instant message with their friends. Cheating spouses spends money that you eventually realize were for things that he either never bought for you or don't see it in the house.

The most popular tip people give about long distance relationship is to giving a surprise visit. But everybody thinks differently, so you have to decide it on an individual level whether to go on a surprise trip. Anyways, paying visit is very important part of a long distance relationship, even if you only visit like once a year. It is always a good idea to make a trade off; one year you visit another year your lover visits you. But don't expect too much from the reunion; just be open and honest and the other person will follow the suit. Just enjoy your life. Patient is a key and loneliness is temporary if your long distance relationship is serious and there is a commitment from both sides.